When exploring sobriety it can be helpful to ask ourselves questions. Drugs and alcohol have damaged our brain's ability to naturally think rational thoughts. Essentially our brains have been hijacked and reprogrammed to aggressively seek out artificial rushes of dopamine. So instead of trusting our initial reaction or judgement it may be beneficial to take a moment and evaluate whether something is helpful or unhelpful to our recovery. This is the practice of being mindful of our thoughts and the choices we make. 
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​There is so much emphasis put on helping and celebrating those in early addiction recovery. Think about the out pour of support and encouragement when loved ones see that you are serious this time. Or the great amount of effort put into welcoming you (the "new comer") at the meetings. And of course the new awakening within your soul that recognizes the importance and necessity of fighting to stay sober each and every day. This is beautiful and an extremely beneficial part of the recovery journey. 

​But what happens when the newness starts to wear off? What happens when you've achieved 2-5 years of sobriety and your loved ones are no longer checking on you daily/weekly? What happens when you are no longer the new comer, but instead you're the sponsor? You're the one that others look up to, the one that inspires the group, the one that "made it." A lot of pressure can be felt at this stage of recovery. The every day stresses of responsible adult life can sometimes still be too much for a person in this stage of recovery. Guess what? That's okay. You're human. You have good days and bad days. You still have struggles and short comings. You are still very much a work in progress. It's wonderful that 2-5 years into recovery you have all the knowledge and tools necessary to be abstinent forever, but like any other human (especially one with an addiction history) your mind still sometimes whispers unhelpful and even harmful words of discouragement and temptation. Remember how you evicted those thoughts in the beginning. You can't let them live in your mind rent free now!

​Furthermore, it is important to point out that while 2-5 years of sobriety is a significant period of time - it is still considered the maintenance stage of recovery. In this stage an individual still has to work very hard to prevent relapse. They must maintain the healthy lifestyle changes they've implemented such as getting adequate sleep, exercise, and nutrition. They must continue to place a priority on sober recreational activities, growing their relationship with God, maintaining healthy relationships with friends and family and avoiding toxic relationships. While they do not feel the urge to relapse as often as they once did, they are not out of the woods, per say. A high risk situation, a lapse in judgement, an emotional day, a particularly stressful event, or any combination of a multitude of possible circumstances can lead to a person with years of recovery choosing to relapse.
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Today is a special day in American History. 
When we look at how and why America has been such a successful nation among all others it is evident that our founding fathers had the divine inspiration of God guiding them.
They read their Bibles and formed societal structures based on what they read. 
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​In today's society it is controversial to say that you are proud to be an American. 
Picking apart our nation's flaws is much more popular these days. 
For those that prefer to criticize- we challenge you to take a moment and consider what kind of nation you would have created if you were given a blank slate some 200 years ago. 
Or what other country in the world do you feel has a better system in place today?
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Our Declaration of Independence and Constitution far surpass any other forms of government that have been tried throughout history. ​
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Here at Your Praying Friend we are
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​Take a listen to a true historian share how special America really is:
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​In light of the recent court decision we would like to share that there always has been and always will be alternatives to abortion. 
We understand that an unplanned pregnancy can cause an array of emotion and we want you to know there is help. 
If you or someone you know is facing an unplanned pregnancy and they feel as though abortion is the only solution please share this list of resources with them. 
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In a society that tells us there are no differences between men and women and in fact there are possibly hundreds of different genders - let's ground ourselves in reality - God created men and women and gave each gender special and unique characteristics.
​Now that's something worthy of celebration this month!
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I don't know how it is where you live, but in St. Louis there are rainbow flags in many yards year round; however for the month of June you see them everywhere, all the time. In the windows of businesses, parades in the streets and groups of people riding around on golf carts decked out in rainbow decor. 

She was a mother, grandmother, wife, daughter, sister and friend.
But she was all that and so much more! ​

​Your Praying Friend was created by a Christian Substance Abuse Counselor in hopes of helping others find healing through Christ and community. 
One way we carry out that mission is by sharing recovery success stories. 
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At Your Praying Friend, we believe in the power and importance of prayer! 
We know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him (Romans 8:28).
We trust that God did not put us on this Earth alone for a reason.
He graciously gifted us brothers and sisters in Christ who will help us bear our burdens. 
​With that being said, please be thinking about what we can pray with you about today.​
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